“For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height— to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God” (Ephesians 3:14-19, NKJV).

“For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, from whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height— to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God” (Ephesians 3:14-19, NKJV).

Preparing for conciliation

This page is for clients who are engaged in conciliation services.

Like delving into deep waters, reconciliation and restoration of relationships requires time and dedication in order to fully explore your conflict and grow in love and understanding. The skills you develop will last a lifetime.  

Below are preparation forms and assignments. A Case Manager informs you via email which ones to complete. Section 1 is publicly available to review; Sections 2 through 6 are password protected, provided by the Case Manager. All forms and assignments remain confidential.

Section 1 - Information and Forms

Introduction

Forms

Section 2 - Initial Tasks

Selecting a Care Team

Preparing Your Vision Statement

Understanding the Process and Ground Rules

Section 3 - Personal Reflections

Preparing Your Conflict Story

Preparing Your Speck List

Preparing Your Log List

Preparing a Confession

Section 4 - Identifying and Addressing Issues

Preparing an Issues List

Preparing a Redemptive Confrontation

Section 5 - Assessing Culture

Assessing Culture Survey

Section 6 - Wrap Up

Final Comments and Survey

Used with permission by Judy Dabler, www.CreativeConciliation.org, © 2018 by Judy Dabler, Creative Conciliation.